I'm trying to understand a guy interested in me who also confessed to have a "**** buddy"?

I've been dating this guy for a while (i.e. about 5 months) who is very attentive, educated, polite etc. We didn't get to know each other ually, because I feel unprepared right now, I need time to know him more. He respects my wishes and seems to cope with them. But the other night I asked him if he was seeing someone else, and he confessed to have met and currently "occasionally" seeing a "**** buddy" (for over a month and a half) once in about 2 weeks. I was glad he told it straight in my face, but in the back of my mind I couldn't refrain from considering this thing as being superficial, odd... Even the calm, detached tone he used made me feel awkward...anyway, it gave me mixed feelings. I could never do that! Now, how in the world am I going to know if this has truly ended or not, once we get to know each other better? Would I even want this relationship to become more than it is? I can't understand this because it never happened before... I could, probably, if I were a guy...

Can I fix this mistake the officer made?

Call the station and ask to speak with the officer who wrote you the ticket and ask if you can meet him at the station when he is there to correct the mistake or if you really have to go to court. Mistakes happen, doesn't hurt to ask or explain.

Liberals, why do things like diversity seem to matter more to you than excellence and achievement? I mean, do?

Most of the folks that answered your question completely missed the point! Your point is, don't choose a person because they are a minority (we all knew that 0bama was going to choose a latina for supreme justice and he was combing every little traffic court to find one), but be COLOR BLIND and choose the best person. It's that simple. Why is that so offensive? White males have become the group MOST discriminated against.

Should I tell this married guy to smarten up or just ignore him?

Ok I met this guy through a website just recently. We already exchanged several very friendly messages so I decided to do some snooping. It wasn't hard to find out more about him since he is one of a handful of teachers in a very tiny town. Guess what their school newsletter said he got married on Monday. Technically there was nothing really wrong with his messages, like they didn't say he was single (it was not through a dating site that we met) but very chatty and personal and acting single, like pointing out things we have in common. Shouldn't he be, like, too busy to be chatting up women he doesn't know?!! My question is if I should follow my urge to write and tell him he's a moron and he shouldn't be doing this, or if it's better to just stop writing and not say why.

Pregnancy and shingles help?

i am a hairddresser o am 15 weeks pregnant had a client in yesterday who said she has shingles is this bad for me and my baby? she say she has it everytime she comes in but dont it make you really ill you cant leave the house

How do I safely package & send frozen food (approx. 1 to 14 kilos) interstate in Australia?

Also, are there any products anyone can recommend other than dry ice and gel packs as I need something a little longer lasting (the items will be sent overnight, but just in case they take longer to get to their destination or have to sit on a doorstep which has a warmer climate. Thank you for any help :).

How can I get my "friend" to stop copying everything I do?

You can either ask her sometime when she's doing something you do, "why does it seem you always do the same things I do most of the time". OR, you can just start to "pull away" from her a bit & not be as close to her as you now are. But, I think I'd "call" her on it so to say & ask her why does she seem to copy so many of the things you do ALL the time. She obviously likes the things you do, that's for sure!^