My husband treats me like a queen when we are alone....?

There are many men out there like that. It's like they lead double lives. They don't want their friends to know how he treats you or they will think that he is "whipped", and we all know that men can't admit that. He is scared to show his true personality. Have you tried to break that circle of friends and see what happens? Find a different, laid back but not boring couple to hang out with at a small pub or something and just hang out play some pool and enjoy the night and see if he can blend in or if he treats you differently on a different scale. Sometimes, it's the people we chose to hang out with that can have a negative affect on us without us really knowing. Try to go different places with different people. Think outside of the box, and see if you notice a change in him and the way he treats you. If not, then I suggest you strongly think about other options and move on with your life. You need someone stable in your life. If you want drama, then that is what you will receive. If you don't, then leave that up to the soap operas in the afternoon. Good luck.